Monday, August 20, 2012

Being a DAD

One of the greatest callings on PLANET EARTH is to be a DAD!  I love being  a DAD.  I guess it

helps that I have three of the coolest kids in the world as well.  While the three are all connected under 

the last name "Barnes", in many ways they are each so uniquely different!   I can hangout with all three

of them at different times of the day and do three totally different things.  Isn't diversity GREAT!  


As I was thinking about the DAD gig the other day, I was really humbled when I truly saw the 

enormous calling of my life.  I was going through a time in the WORD about leaving a LEGACY and 

what that means as a DAD and I had to take a step back to become very honest with GOD.  I mean 

I only get the time I have to leave a legacy with my kids that is CHRIST CENTERED!  Was I doing

it correctly?  What am I missing?  The enormity that each of my children will create their own depiction 

of JESUS based upon a large amount of time viewing how my relationship with Jesus is lived out!  

That is HUGE TO ME!  The heaviness that sank in to my heart in the realization that each WORD I 

SPEAK and ACTION I TAKE, makes a huge impact upon the way my children view JESUS. 


You can see the importance and the priority GOD placed upon this calling on the Israelites in

Deuteronomy 6;
“Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.  (Deuteronomy 6:4-9 ESV)

Oh man, did this blow me away!  Even amidst their many religious traditions, God placed a heavy 

emphasis on parents not to compartmentalize their faith but to live it out 24/7.  To go way beyond 

just "doing the sacrifices" and "journeying to the temple", but live an active transparent faith all day 

every day!   

Eternity is a long time and the time my children is very short!

God, may my life be a picture of your love, forgiveness, patience, discipline, mercy, etc.

Fathers, don't exasperate your children by coming down hard on them. Take them by the hand and lead them in the way of the Master.  Ephesians 6:4




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